I WILL TRANSFORM YOU INTO THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF SO YOU CAN GET THE GIRL AND CHARM MORE THAN JUST HER SOCKS OFF.
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Get her (and the world) to notice you
You’ve stayed small long enough. It’s time to unearth what’s been buried deep inside... a witty, charismatic, masculine man who commands a room and her attention.
Who Is
Kristen?
Kristen is a stand-up comedian and sought after dating coach dubbed the “Personality Whisperer” and “The Banter Coach”, With over 10 years in the dating industry and 15 in comedy, Kristen has one of the most unique backgrounds and approaches in the business…
Just a few of Kristen's Specialities... She's known for her one-of- a-kind...
In 90 Days, Kristen will make you MAGNETIC. She’ll bring out and enhance your best qualities and help you build the ones you want to improve. She’ll teach you everything from how to flirt, how to give her an unforgettable experience, how to win her over in text, so you stop getting ghosted, how to create uncontrollable chemistry, how to look your best, how to stand-out and be memorable and everything in-between. Below are just a few of the things Kristen is killer at.
Banter Coaching
Kristen is the world’s ONLY Banter Coach and the go-to expert in the industry for in-person and online banter. She has saved hundreds of men who were failing miserably in banter, conversations, flirting and approaching, both online and in-person. It's because her approach to teaching banter is practical, easy to understand and most importantly, easy to learn. With step-by-step instructions, exercises, role playing, her "wit formula" and real-life practice scenarios, Kristen doesn't give you canned lines and one liners like the other dating coaching out there who only touch the surface of banter. She'll teach you the HARD SKILL of how to be authentically great in conversation without the crutches. No more "pick-up artist" tricks. No more awkward silences. No more relying on emojis. You're better than that. And, she'll teach you how to be. She'll teach you HOW to be witty (yes, YOU can learn to be witty), charming, fast on your feet, original, playful, intriguing, mysterious, sensitive, supporting AND strong ALL in conversation. You’re competing against hundreds of thousands of men. You HAVE to stand out by making a MEANINGFUL and FLIRTATIOUS CONNECTION. And, you make that connection with words. Funny words, meaningful words, true words, playful words. Words Kristen will teach you how to find.
Escalation Expertise
Most men think escalating sexually has to be literal - as in “saying something directly sexual”. This couldn’t be further from the truth. When you go the literal route, it can come across inappropriate, like a “creepy uncle”, immature, gross, like a bad romance novel and/or plain cheesy. All of those things will lead to one outcome - TURNING HER OFF. When first beginning and throughout the escalation journey, you want to take the road less traveled. And, Kristen has the exact map of the road less traveled - a roadmap translated from “women speak” to “men speak” so nothing is lost in translation. Kristen’s “Escalation Roadmap” has made turning women on go from almost impossible to “Whoa, that was suspiciously easy” for hundreds of her clients. By pairing subtle-verbal escalation with subtle-physical escalation, it’s like mixing plutonium and uranium. Before you know it, you’ve created an explosion of feelings on a nuclear level. After working with Kristen on escalating, it’s important to remember the quote, “With great power comes great responsibility.” You’ll want to use your skills wisely, otherwise you’ll have women banging down your door. If that’s the goal, Kristen says “You’re welcome” and if that’s not the goal, Kristen says “You’re welcome” :)
Banter Coaching
Kristen is the world’s ONLY Banter Coach and the go-to expert in the industry for in-person and online banter. She has saved hundreds of men who were failing miserably in banter, conversations, flirting and approaching, both online and in-person. It's because her approach to teaching banter is practical, easy to understand and most importantly, easy to learn. With step-by-step instructions, exercises, role playing, her "wit formula" and real-life practice scenarios, Kristen doesn't give you canned lines and one liners like the other dating coaching out there who only touch the surface of banter. She'll teach you the HARD SKILL of how to be authentically great in conversation without the crutches. No more "pick-up artist" tricks. No more awkward silences. No more relying on emojis. You're better than that. And, she'll teach you how to be. She'll teach you HOW to be witty (yes, YOU can learn to be witty), charming, fast on your feet, original, playful, intriguing, mysterious, sensitive, supporting AND strong ALL in conversation. You’re competing against hundreds of thousands of men. You HAVE to stand out by making a MEANINGFUL and FLIRTATIOUS CONNECTION. And, you make that connection with words. Funny words, meaningful words, true words, playful words. Words Kristen will teach you how to find.
Dating Profiles
The majority of dating is done online. That means, your dating profile can MAKE or BREAK your dating life. It could be the difference between you single for another 5 years or, just another 5 months. And, an OK profile DOES NOT CUT IT. Kristen’s innate skill as a wordsmith paired with her ability to capture your essence and her eye for style and aesthetics outmatch any profile makeover service on the market, guaranteed. With over 10 years of experience, her fine-tuned profile makeovers are the perfect combination of unique, clever, interesting and attractive that will TRIPLE your matches. They never cease to amaze her clients upon first glance and again when they can’t keep up with all the women in their inbox. In life, there are certain areas you can skimp on. Your dating profile isn’t one of them. You wouldn’t put your life in the hands of a pilot who lands 1 out of 10 planes, you would put it in the hands of the pilot who lands all 10. Kristen is the Sully of dating profiles. She lands all 10, even if a few “birds hit the engine”(aka “she doesn’t have much to work with”).
Top Experts Endorse Kristen
Dr. Drew Pinsky
"Kristen always surprises and delights. Podcasting, radio, wherever our paths have crossed she has been ever insightful and witty. Now she turns her attention to dating and relationships; gentlemen, she is here for you."
Dr. Emily Morse, "Sex
With Emily
"Kristen is funny, flirty and knows good banter. The best part? She can actually teach you these skills to make you a better dater"
Jordan Harbinger
"Having spent the better part of the last twenty years sharing the strategies, perspectives, and insights of the most successful people on earth with millions, I'm comfortable saying that any guy looking to improve his interpersonal skills and dating prospects would be well-served tapping into Kristen's skills and products."
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Ask Women Podcast:What Women Want
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
What do a female comic and profressional winggirl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALL Y want in a man.
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The most ELABORATE, effective (and not lame) banter training on the planet — Kristen's downloadable, work-at-your-own-pace online course is designed to get you authentically standing out of the crowd, flirting, connecting, and keeping women hooked from the very first exchange.
And, yes — no matter how dry or bland you think you are, you CAN learn how to be charming and fast on your feet.
Led by the Banter Sensei herself, this masterclass teaches you how to:
✔ Spark instant chemistry — without being rehearsed
âś” Keep conversations playful, dynamic, magnetic, and moving
âś” Ditch canned lines and become a master of in-the-moment charm
âś” Navigate awkward silences, teasing, and flirtation with ease
✔ Actually enjoy talking to women (yes, it’s possible)
This isn’t surface-level stuff. This is the real, grounded skill of connecting through DYNAMIC conversation — the kind that actually leads somewhere.
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